Patricia Gibbs

Patricia Ann “Sissy” Gibbs was born on November 28, 1946, in Oriental, NC, to the late James Robert Green Sr. and Annie Gibbs Gaskin. Patricia, known affectionately as "Sissy," attended the Pamlico County School system and worked as a cook at the local Marina Hotel in Oriental, North Carolina. Her love and passion for cooking led her to relocate to New Haven, CT, with her two small children, Jackquin and Jeanette Gibbs, in pursuit of a better life. Sissy held various odd jobs before becoming a bartender at several local bars, including Bama’s Lounge, owned by her extended brother, Robert “Bama” Williams Sr. Later, when Bama opened The Dunbar Lounge, Sissy served as the head bartender for several years. Her affectionate smile and warm personality drew crowds. She eventually returned to school, earning her GED at the Adult Education Center and obtaining certification as a Certified Nurse Assistant. Sissy went on to work as a Home Health Aide for several companies in the greater New Haven area. Sissy was known for her delicious Southern cooking, especially her fried chicken. She loved good music, playing cards with family and friends, and most of all, gathering with loved ones. Outspoken and direct, she wasn’t one to sugarcoat her thoughts. She would often look someone straight in the eye and say, “I’m trying to help you!” While her messages could sometimes come across as blunt, her love for everyone was pure, and anything she did for others came straight from the heart. Sissy leaves behind a large, loving family and many friends who will cherish her memory. She is survived by her children: Casandra Hackney (Willie) of North Carolina, Jackquin Gibbs of Alaska, and Mitchell Gibbs and Freeman Gibbs of Connecticut; nine siblings: Donald Gibbs Sr. of Virginia, Frankie Gibbs (Barbara) of Florida, Junie Johnson of Connecticut, Marthina Fulcher of North Carolina, and Bridget White (Rodney) of North Carolina; a stepbrother, Marvin Stokes of North Carolina; Gregory Green of North Carolina; a stepsister, Tisha Cooper of Georgia; and a nephew she raised, Tony Gibbs. Patricia also leaves behind a notable nephew and niece, Robert “Bob” Williams Jr. and Dewlyne Ponteau; 13 grandchildren; 10 great-grandchildren; and a host of nieces, nephews, and cousins whom she loved unconditionally. Patricia Ann Gibbs was predeceased by her parents, James Robert Green Sr. and Annie Louise Gibbs Gaskin; two children, Malcolm Gibbs and Jeanette Gibbs; and six siblings: Robert Lee Gibbs, Tony Gibbs, Choisie Bynum, James Green Jr., Carlton Green, and Vanessa Green. An extended brother, Robert “Bama” Williams Sr.

Patricia Gibbs

November 28, 1946 - August 25, 2024